Posted by: nichole | May 12, 2011

Excuse me, Please and Thank You

You can get through life with bad manners, but it’s easier with good manners. Lillian Gish

Something went horribly wrong somewhere. Somewhere along the way, we lost the basic principles of manners. Manners, social graces, whatever you want to call it, and they have been lost.

Last year, I was at EAT! Vancouver, in line to receive one of the many samples available that day. When I finally got my sample and said “thank you,” the lady working the booth looked at me funny and said I was the first person that day to say thank you to her. WHAT?

People look at me funny when I say “excuse me” passing them in the aisle in the grocery store or when I want to move past them and their grocery cart. Is that really that odd? I didn’t think so. What have we come to?

Yes, I have my Southern sensibilities and still say “Yes Ma’am” to my mother and any other woman older than I am regardless that I am now in my 40s. It’s the way I was taught and my mother wouldn’t accept anything less.

What happened?

There are some fab parents around who are teaching their children these social graces. Thank you, it’s appreciated. It makes me smile when I see a child say thank you, please or excuse me. But what I found is those parents have great social graces too. It’s easy to pass it along when you practice what you preach.

Manners never go out of style. And know, people are watching not just in your personal live but definitely in business.

Excuse me, but please consider your manners in the future. Thank you!

Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use. Emily Post

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Responses

  1. Love this post!!! And I completely agree that there’s something wrong with us when people are surprised to hear “Thank you.” I experience the same situation occasionally- and then am thanked for thanking. 😉

    • Hi Michelle, thank you for your comments. I’m glad you liked the post. It’s been weighing on my mind for a while and I just had to share.

      nichole

  2. You learned well.

    • Thank you, Daddy!

  3. Thank you for reminding people that is better to be polite than ignorant. Excuse me for putting it so bluntly. Please remain the person you have become. You can always get more honey with sugar than you can with vinegar….

    • That was pretty blunt but it is the point after all. No need to ask me to remain the person I’ve become, I had great teachers! 😉

  4. […] Being appreciative for the very things that you own would be a great start.  That new car or phone you are sporting around, your parents had to make sacrifices for.  Unless they have discovered how to shit the “golden egg”, they did without so you could be cool, and get what you want.  So say, and most importantly show you are thankful.   I got manners here. […]


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